Well, the year is coming to a close and it is usually around this time that I think about all that has happened over the year. This past year definitely had some of the saddest moments with stupid, nasty cancer being the dominate theme. My heart goes out to those friends who will have many “firsts” next year without their loved one. I would love to say that it gets easier but that is a huge pile of donkey doo. It doesn’t get easier, but you can change your mind about how you are going to spend those “first” days without your person. Remembering and sharing is the best way to keep your person close to your heart forever and a good friend will always want to listen to a story about why your mom stuck her tongue out in every family photo or how much your wife loved shopping.
This past year also brought some interesting challenges. I am currently in the final decision making phase of my proactive solutions to some of the angst from the year. Do I just order the rocket launchers, pepper spray and night vision goggles or do I use a more friendly approach and plant trees, wear noise reduction headphones and drink more? Time, patience and funding will all be considered during this phase.
All in all the year provided many lessons that, apparently, make up the greater whole of who I am. May the lessons next year be easier ones with a whole lot less calories!
To all my friends and self appointed family – may your next year bring joy, lots of laughter, very little heartache, a good sandwich, a full tank of gas and a frosty beverage on a hot summer day.
